Cousin islamqa Ameen. Is it permissible for us females to greet him as such?2. Can I do so because some of my friends said she is your niece, you cannot get married to her. The verse of Surah al-Ahzab where it is mentioned “[this is] We use cookies on IslamQA to measure visitor stats. It is not permissible for one to marry the daughter of one’s foster sister. I knew she was interested in me , though I made it clear to her for a couple months that I wasnt, and tried to act in a harsh manner so she would get the message. Khan Question: I’m looking for answer on first cousin marriage according to Quran and sunnah. I was going to marry my cousin without the consent of her parents after eid ul fitr but her mother did some black magic on her and she changed. By clicking “Accept”, you consent Answer Mahram refers to all those persons with whom marriage is not permissible ona permanent basis Below is list detailing those with whom Nikah is notpermissible on a permanenet basis. I am 19 the told me he was around 23 or 24 but then i just found out that he is 28. [1] When looking for a spouse, piety should be the priority. I like my cousin since last ten years and wish to marry her. There is no prohibition for your cousin’s son to marry your daughter. As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil is asked about being urged to marry a cousin when one is interested in someone outside the family. My question with description: When I was 12 years old(i hit puberty that time). Assalamualaikum im 21 yrs old and In my house my parents are recommending me to get married to my mothers cousin brother is it permissible to marry him in islam? Answer In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Your fathers cousin (grandmothers sisters daughter) is considered to be a stranger (non- Mahram) to you. Is it permissible ? A: This is your father’s cousin, so it is permissible to marry her. Yes, it is permissible for you to marry your mother’s cousin’s daughter. She was old then and had no milk in her breast. Cousins can marry each other in Islam. A: Your husband is a jaahil. my fiance is two years older than me. Q: So, one of my cousins accuses me of talking negative about her behind her back at the time we were good, I’m not that close to my cousins who live locally near me although I want to be, so I was close with this one cousin she accused me of talking negative about her behind her back and she didn’t give me time to explain and ignored me, I never once talked negative about her Q: I am engaged to my cousin from last 2 years, we have 10 years of difference in our age. My parents and my aunt are telling me that if Allah wills, he will accept Islam in the future (after marriage). w)’s daughter, Fatima (R. And now my doubt is as I have felt him as my nephew/son, is it permissible for me to marry him? Answered by: Shaykh Ahmed Bin Mohamed Umarji Question: Asalamalikum Sheikh l want to ask if my mother has a cousin sister, is it allowed to marry the Grand Daughter of my Mother’s Cousin Sister? In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful Answer: It is permissible to marry the granddaughter of one’s I am 30 years old. Who are they? Aunts, uncles, 2nd cousins, sisterinlaws, grnafathers sisters etc? I am a convert and my relatives dont really get along with me. I want know about perform umrah with my cousin sister we are living in Riyadh from last ten month’s in different fields ane different companies, so I alredy perform umrah last ramadan but this time my cousin sister says she also come with me to perform umrah if you tell me what the rules n conditions of for both us n how we can go to the right way, I already questioned last My question is if it would be permissible to chat on internet with my male cousin -only sometimes, not always or all the times-, with whom there is no connection of marriage talks between usand we only sometimes want to chat for exchanging knowledge of school subjects (for example, if he took that subject before I can ask him information on it) or about certain career options. is it true?. Please explain this for me. I love my cousin but her mother say first cousin Marrying a cousin's son to a daughter; I am engaged with my cousin since last 3 years,i use to meet him in this era,what is the kafarah f previous meeting in islam after marriage,we Q: I am a woman. too much wet dream is driving me mad to masturbation 2. I didnt want to marry him . a). I didn’t force her but tricked her. Question. By clicking “Accept”, you consent Q: Can I can marry my father's mother's (my grand mother's) brother's daughter? She is of my age. And Allah Knows Best. By clicking “Accept”, you consent to Except if your male cousin is also your foster-brother you will have to cover yourself in front of him because you are allowed to marry him. Moulana Yusuf Laher Original Source Link Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I am a woman who has received a marriage proposal from my maternal cousin’s son. The Conclusion. Q: Can my husband add female cousins on his facebook account? And can he kiss his female cousins or shake hands with them?A. I have unfortunately fallen in love with my cousin. No. How should I maintain ties with first cousins and Dear Ulemas, I am a 23 year old man doing his MBA from Srinagar, kashmir. I performed an Istikhara on the seeking guidance to marry my cousin whom i feel is a pious person. Q: Amongst Indian, Pakistani and Bangladeshi Muslims in the west, there is the notion that brother in laws and sister in laws can mix or male and female cousins can mix so long as there is no fear of fitna and on the basis that senior Ulama, Tablighis and Mureeds of Shaykhs do so. It is not permissible to do anything with ones cousin that is not permissible to do with anyone else who is not ones unmarriageable kin. And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best. It is permissible to marry him. May I also have advice that I may pass on to females that kiss their brother in laws. is not Answered by: Maulana Naieem Mohammad Question Is it haram to marry a cousin of your parent in Islam? بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحِيْم In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful Answer: Allah has clearly defined in the Quran the people to whom we are not allowed to be Q: Please clarify regarding who can be a mahram. I heard that there is a hadees that we should not marry our first cousin over generation after generation. May Allah reward you for reaching out to us. Your maternal grandmother’s brother (mother’s mother’s brother) is your Mahram. My parents were first cousins, and it has come to my attention that marrying my first cousin may be mukrooh as there are known hereditary diseases in my family that may be transmitted to my offspring. They are close in age. Please refer to this very informative and succinct My maternal Uncle has also married his maternal Uncle's daughter. Such marriages are categorized as mubah (permissible). From whom my wife should do purdah 2. Their family is a moderately practicing family. I just want to no if its a dream to worry over or maybe its something else in which his subconscious is trying to warn him about. If you are using the gift as an excuse to fulfil your nafs and passion, then it is not permissible. 1. I cannot sleep at night. Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil is asked about being urged to marry a cousin when one is interested in someone outside the family. Khan Question: Did the Prophet (peace be upon him) discourage marrying relatives (ie. Original Source Link Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad. They are neither prohibited Islam permits marrying one’s cousin. I love my cousin but her mother say first cousin I had a cousin who was living with us for a little while and things ended up going wrong. There is no blood relation in this Assala mu Alaykum. I like him and his family but my father doesn’t. Q: I have an important question. The problem is that she does not put on the Hijab and sometimes, we are alone at the house and she calls me to the fornication but I resist and I spoke to her about marriage. I make duaa that I can marry her and complete a sunnah of the noble Prophet (saws) to marry more than once. Original Q: I'm really worried and need advice on the matter of first cousin marriages. Your mother’s cousin (your cousin Uncle) is not your Mahram. a), also married her cousin Ali (R. A woman has to observe the Hijab in front of her mother’s and father’s cousins. After a year, for some family reasons, my cousin left the girl. I know that girl and I want to Is it permissible for cousins to be Nikah? Assalaamu Alaikum, Yes, it is permissible for cousins to marry one another. It is permissible for you to marry her. cousins) even though it is lawful?Answer: Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah, I pray this finds you in the best of health and states. There is nothing wrong with marriage to cousins in Islam, as cousins are not included in the maharim. Prophet (s. The whole family knew and since he was still studying, the family wanted to marry them once my cousin's studies were over. It is not permissible for him to be alone with you or for you to uncover any part of your body in But is it permissible to be married to two female paternal cousins or two female maternal cousins at the same time, even if they are jealous of one another and sever ties with At the outset, it is important to understand that Shari’ah merely permits marriages between first cousins. Examples from the sunna include that of the Prophet’s (Allah bless him and give him peace) marriage to Zaynab bint Jahsh (Allah be pleased with her), his cousin; and that of Sayyiduna Hanzala (Allah be pleased with him) who married his cousin Jamila bint Ibn Ubayy. This includes cousins. Original Source Link Answer (Fatwa: 658/658=M/1430) You cannot marry your brother with the cousin sister (the daughter of maternal aunt); since in the abovementioned case, by drinking the milk of maternal grandmother, your brother and cousin sister became foster maternal uncle and niece. A: Non mahrams. Ask They are first cousins. Manage I am going to marry in one or two years. We are dying to get married with each other but our parents specially my fiance's parents are not willing to marry her daughter till 8 to 10 months more. He (my father) agrees that he possesses good character and might make me happy but thinks that because he is not financially stable and is shy, he is unsuitable for me. because I am almost engaged and I am really Must I Marry My Cousin? Could I try to get my sister to talk to a girl that I have seen for an engagement? Can I treat my cousin sister as i treat my own sister?Can i kiss my cousin sister(she is a year and a half elder than me)as i kiss my own I love her and she is my cousin and lives in India, how can I tell my parents and can I mary her? Q: We have a second cousin who is 17 years old and autistic. My question is can I marry him, My maternal Uncle has also married his maternal Uncle's daughter. The children of aunts and uncles are cousins to one another. MENU MENU. they told me he was taller than me but then when i married him he was a little shoter than me and fat . I have seen a very bad dream about me and my wife. At the outset, it is important to understand that Shari’ah merely permits marriages between first cousins. thanks Answer Answer: In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: I got engaged one year ago to my cousin. . Mufti Waseem Khan. Cookie Settings Accept Question: I’m looking for answer on first cousin marriage according to Quran and sunnah. plus i feel like they Q: We have a second cousin who is 17 years old and autistic. These thoughts affect my studies. 2. Is it required by the Shariah that she should observe hijab from her cousins? A. And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best. I want marry that Question: I’m looking for answer on first cousin marriage according to Quran and sunnah. And Allah knows best and He alone gives success (tawfiq). Consider the following hadith: عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه، عن Are First Cousin Marriages Permissible in Islam? What is the Ruling on Covering the Head? - (Hanbali Fiqh) Are First Cousins Considered Like Brother and Sister for the Purposes of Explore the permissibility of marrying cousins, particularly the daughters of maternal aunts and uncles, in Islamic tradition. Now Answered by Shaykh Faraz A. We use cookies on IslamQA to measure visitor stats. But the problem is he does not follow Islam. are muslim brothers allowed to chat/phone muslim sisters on mobile? How Can I Withdraw From My Cousin Since We Grew Up Like Siblings? Answered by Shaykh Abdul-Karim Yahya, SunniPath Academy Teacher I teach a lesson and one of my students asked if it was permissible to ride in a car with her male cousin. In my child hood, mother of my father used to put her breast nipple in my mouth, whenever I cried. Jazakallah Khairun Answer Almighty Allah outlines the qualities of the Can I marry my cousin's 19-year-old daughter if she consents and both sets of parents agree? Marrying a cousin's son to a daughter; My cousin sister is going thru a hard-time in her life. I’m struggling to get my head around a ruling in Islam that In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Q: I want to know the meaning of a dream my cousin saw about me. You cannot marry him. A: YesAnd Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best. My cousin proposed to me some years ago. I some times chat with her The man and woman here are cousins. There is a girl whom my cousin was previously in love with. What should my husband do as he thinks I am over possessive and he is not doing anything wrong. and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best . Q: Can a male talk with his female cousins?A: A man’s female cousin or his male cousin’s wife are not his mehrams, so there has to be purdah or hijaab between the two. Praise be to Allah. And what should one do if you are use to talking to them and you are about to get married and my spouse will not like it, should I stop. By clicking “Accept”, you consent to Answered by Ustadh Faraz A. Original Source Link I was married to my cousin by force. Mufti Siraj Desai Answered by: Maulana Naieem Mohammad Question Is it haram to marry a cousin of your parent in Islam? بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحِيْم In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful Answer: Allah has clearly defined in the Quran the people to whom we are not allowed to be Q: Can a male talk with his female cousins?A: A man’s female cousin or his male cousin’s wife are not his mehrams, so there has to be purdah or hijaab between the two. 29/5/17. Manage consent. Sir, tell me islamic point of view what i can do? Answer Assalāmu Marrying ones Parent’s Cousin; Speaking with Female Cousins; Are First Cousins Considered Like Brother and Sister for the Purposes of Marriage? Can I Marry My Father’s Brother’s Son in Islam? Question: I’m looking for answer on first cousin marriage according to Quran and sunnah. I had a cousin who was living with us for a little while and things ended up going wrong. Answered by:Mufti Is it permissible for cousins to be Nikah? Assalaamu Alaikum, Yes, it is permissible for cousins to marry one another. As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa Q: I am engaged to the daughter of the sister of my father. We have to distinguish between what is 1) Nabi (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) himself married his cousin, Sayyidah Zaynab bintu Jahsh (radiyallahu ‘anha). It is permissible to give a gift to a non-mahram as a pure gift and not to fulfill your nafs and passion through the gifting. I dislike him; he is not well-qualified, but I could not refuse my parents. Answered by:Mufti Zakaria MakadaChecked & Approved:Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach) Original Source Link We use cookies on IslamQA to measure visitor stats. Khan. Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum Are my cousins mahrams to me? Can I marry one of them? Answer: Assalam alaykum. They are first cousins. Some time ago, my cousin came to live at our home. I love my cousin but her mother say first cousin Q: Is marring one's mothers cousin allowed in Islam? I am a IT Employee working in an MNC. I have received a marriage proposal from my maternal cousin for his son. I love my cousin but her mother say first cousin Marrying Father's Cousin; Marrying a cousin's son to a daughter; Does one Have to do Pardah from Son in Law during Iddah? 1. Answered by:Mufti Zakaria MakadaChecked & Answered by: Maulana Shadman Ahmed Question Does a woman have to make pardah in front of her father's first cousin brother? بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحِيْم In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful Answer: Yes, a woman has to make purdah in front of her father’s Marrying ones Cousin; Can I marry my cousin's 19-year-old daughter if she consents and both sets of parents agree? First Cousin Marriages and Potential Hereditary Diseases; Assalaam alaikum i always have dreams in which i am having sex with my cousin, she is couple years older than me, what does this mean as it An unmarried cousin of mine committed zina a few times but has repented seriously and has never ever comitted this sin again. Is this acceptable and what should my response to them be if it is not? A: How can this shameful behaviour be right. My mother died three years ago and I promised here that I will aceede all things of my father and unmarried sisters. Q. Could you please give me famous Aslam-u-Alyqum, My mother's younger sister's daughter loving me alot and she willing to marry me! Can i marry her or not ? Please help me with this. I believe we have to help them when they are not doing well financially or give them gifts through my mother to maintain ties. What I want to ask is it halal to marry with my cousin now? A: If you have a doubt that just one drop may have Q: If someone commits sodomy with his cousin brother (his mother's brother's son ). Can a cousin, son of mother's brother be a mahram to his cousin?A: Mahram refers to those one is not allowed to marry. He isn’t religious so it doesn’t bother him. Mufti Ebrahim Desai. But my family members are not ready to accept her because she is an educated girl. a. Now The cousin is not a Mahram of the girl and so, he cannot enter her private chamber; only a blood relative can do so. The relationship between you and your cousin is that of “foster brother and sister” [1], since your grandmother is also your foster mother. Answer (Fatwa: 543/543=M/1429)It is lawful to marry a girl elder than you, as the First Cousin Marriages and Potential Hereditary Diseases; A year ago I had my engagement with my cousin. As-salāmu `alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh. Jazakum Allah khayr for your question. Answer Yes you should limit My cousin is getting married soon, and I am anticipating his Walima invitation. It is permissible for him to marry you, as you are not a Mahram for him. My thoughts are about him for more than 1/4 of the day. I dont love him. Now we confirmed from my mother she is saying I don’t remember whether I have breastfed him or not, but I think I would not have breastfed him. My parents want to marry me with my cousin (khala’s son) but previously I have heard that my mom has breastfed him. Please explain fully why this understanding is incorrect? A: Mixing freely has been condemned In the Name of Allaah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. What should I do (sadqa etc) Can widow stay at in-laws' after 4 months & 10 days, with brother-in-law present? Q: Is the wife of my cousin (my mother's sister's son) a mahram for me? A: No. And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows Answered by Shaykh Gibril Haddad Question: Are `Isa and Yahya ibn Zakariyya considered cousins in Islam like in Christianity? Does this mean Maryam had a sister who was married to Zakariyya, while Zakariyya was also the guardian of Maryam? Answer: `Alaykum as-Salam wa rahmatullah: May the blessings of the second half Answered by Ustadh Torab Torabi Question: Does a Woman have to observe hijab in front of her mother’s and father’s cousins? Answer: Walaikum Asalaam Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuh. Answered by:Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach) Original Source Link Q: Please clarify regarding who can be a mahram. What I want to ask is it halal to marry with my cousin now? A: If you have a doubt that just one drop may have Answered by Ustadh Faraz A. The man and woman here are cousins. even my parents lied to me about his height and age. I stay in a different city as I have job there. I had a dream few months back I have a cousin and I like him, so in my dream I saw that I make a dua that O Allah make me and him get married with each other and I try to touch ka’abah but my hands come back second time again I ask Allah same dua and I try to touch ka’abah but my hands come back and third time I ask Allah to forgive my sins and my hands touch ka’abah Answered by: Maulana Syed Johir Miah Question: Is generally saying Salaam to a Ghair-Mahram like a cousin sister and asking how they are permissible when there is no necessity? In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful Answer: Sayyiduna Sahl ( رضى الله عنه ) said, قَالَ كُنَّا I am a 20-year-old young man. me and my family is going through a tough time due to this but my grandmother has seen in her dream two times that we are having a party at home what does this mean? We use cookies on IslamQA to Marrying a cousin's son to a daughter; Interpreting a dream; Marrying Father's Cousin; Can I treat my cousin sister as i treat my own sister?Can i kiss my cousin sister(she is a year and a half elder than me)as i kiss my own Can I marry my fourth cousin breastfed by my mother and aunt? Zakaat to Cousin The cousin is not unmarriageable kin in the sight of The Sacred law. Will it be permissible for me to attend the walima in such a gathering? Isn’t it obligatory for to respond to Q: If my husband speaks to his female cousins or friends just to keep a good relation and friendly chat but I don’t like it and I don’t like such conversation. Q: I am 15/16 years old. As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh. May Allah reward you in abundance in both worlds. I committed this sin. I was listening to a video of Dr Zakir Naik in which he mentions about a saying of Prophet Muhammad not to marry first cousins generations after generations in a family repeatedly as it increases the risk of genetic disorder. I want marry that girl and tell my family but family refuses my requst and forced me to marry with my cousin. Do i still have to keep the ties of kinship with those people. I’m struggling to get my head around a ruling in Islam that my wife was having a conversation on the telephone with her cousin yesterday and my wife said to her cousin” i have got to go its maghrib time you are a kafir as you dont read your salah” but as soon as my wife said this i heard this and told my wife what she said was a very big sin in islam so my wife realising her mistake apologised to her cousin on the phone and the terminated the What does ties of kinship mean. I would like to know if . ) My cousin-brother's wife died after giving birth. ) I want to know what the Shariah says about the relationship with the daughter of one's mother's sister. 2) Kindly contact a Mufti/Darul Ifta for a Fiqh ruling on this issue, as -in some cases- it is affected by medical factors as well. Accordingly, although you are not a mahram for your 3 year old cousin, the laws of hijaab do not apply between the two of you until Question: I used to like my cousin, but don’t anymore. (Al Isti’ab and Usdul Ghabah). You were correct to observe that cousins do not fall under the mahram category as it is apparent from the verses of Surah an-Nisa. He is not your mahram. Is this permissible? Remember my cousin's father and my mother are brother and sister. Only Allah knows best. I some times chat with her In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. By clicking “Accept”, you consent to the use of cookies. I have a question and seeking your guidance under the light of the Hadith. I am 26 years old and unmarried and I want to marry someone but my parents are not agreeing right now. She was 7 then. The upshot is that they are not considered like brother and His cousin is a bit of a troubled teen but alhumdullilah my fiancé is helping her and Insha Allah she will come right. I love my cousin but her mother say first cousin Marrying Father's Cousin; Clarification Regarding the Relationship Between the Validity of a Marriage Contract and the Religious Practice of the Spouses-to-Be; Is It Permissible to Eat Raw Meat or Fish? Q: I got a proposal from my aunty (she lives in America) for her step-son. She saw that I was getting married and my parents and his parents all agreed but then a group of women came in abaayas and niqaab and they asked where is the bride and took me with them and my Q: I have an important question. It will not affect their nikaah. Both of us were laughing very heartily but i don't remember Q: Is your father's cousin your mahram? (Your dadis sisters son)A: NoAnd Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best. Marriage with one's children, grand-children, great grand-children, etc. Original Can Taimoor perform nikah with his cousin who is the daughter of Zulaika? A: If the milk Nasreen fed Taimoor was through becoming pregnant from Amna and Zulaika’s father, then Taimoor will become the foster child (milk child) of Nasreen and her husband (Amna and Zulaika’s father) and he will also become the foster brother of Amna and Zulaika. I tell myself that it's infatuation. According to her mother Allah warns us to beware of cousin marriage danger. There is a girl in my family and she is my mothers cousin sister. It is not obligatory to marry one’s cousin. [Lubab] We use cookies on IslamQA to measure visitor stats. You should note that a male cousin is a stranger to you, like any other non-mahram. He has a daughter that I want to marry is that okay?A: Yes. I don't know how it happened but it did. Answered by:Mufti Zakaria MakadaChecked & Approved:Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach) Original Source Link Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My family thinks I am extreme because I only say salam and talk to them when there is a need. He does not believe in any religion. Although its permissible in Islam, i was wondering as regards to arguments against this as many people cite health issues and high rates of disabilities among children. Asim Yusuf Question: My questions relates to marrying first cousins. My mother's nephew (my first cousin) has a son who will like to marry my daughter. Is it permissible for a girl to chat to her elder (male) cousins on net ? Mixing with non-mehram Cousins; 1. I know that girl and I want to Answered by Dr. Can I give her Zakaat?A: If she qualifies to accept zakaat then it can be given. Q: My grandfather (my dad's dad) has a cousin. As such, the girl’s wali (guardian) who can be the father, paternal grandfather, paternal uncle etc. Am I doing something wrong? Answer: Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, Q: May I please have advice (sin,punishment etc) that I can pass on to those females that kiss their male cousins upon greeting and advice to the male cousins that allow their cousins to kiss them. I really like a girl from outside my family and I believe that she will be a good partner for me. Kissing them and Can i marry my mother's cousin daughter? Answer In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa Hijab and Cousins By Mufti Ebrahim DesaiPosted: 11 Safar 1424, 13 April 2003 Q. Moulana Yusuf Laher Original Source Link Q: I am engaged to the daughter of the sister of my father. Your mother’s cousin is not a Mahram for your mother, let alone for you. In the first dream i saw Myself and her in a car which was being driven very fast. Question: Assalam alaykum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh. Paternal cousins. Is it permissible ?A: This is your father's cousin, so it is permissible to Q. It is permissible for them to marry each other. Can a cousin, son of fathers brother be a mahram to his cousin?2. He likes to ask my advice and doesn’t say anything inappropriate. Q: So, one of my cousins accuses me of talking negative about her behind her back at the time we were good, I’m not that close to my cousins who live locally near me although I want to be, so I was close with this one cousin she accused me of talking negative about her behind her back and she didn’t give me time to explain and ignored me, I never once talked negative about her Q: I am a woman. Cookie Settings Can Taimoor perform nikah with his cousin who is the daughter of Zulaika? A: If the milk Nasreen fed Taimoor was through becoming pregnant from Amna and Zulaika’s father, then Taimoor will become the foster child (milk child) of Nasreen and her husband (Amna and Zulaika’s father) and he will also become the foster brother of Amna and Zulaika. Strict Hijaab has to be observed between those males and females who can marry each other. But is it permissible to be married to two female paternal cousins or two female maternal cousins at the same time, even if they are jealous of one another and sever ties with one another, and that is because upholding ties of kinship between them is not obligatory. It will be HARAAM to have contact with them via facebook. End quote from al-Farooq (1/147). However, both should sincerely repent to Allah Ta’ala for committing this major sin. As-salaamu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullaahi wa-barakaatuh. When he visits us with his family, he often greets us with a hug. Can I marry my grandmothers (fathers side) sisters daughter, my fathers cousin? A. This webpage addresses a common question These guidelines apply to the interaction of a woman with any man who is a stranger (non-mahram) to her, even if he is a relative, such as her cousin (son of her paternal The Islamic view is that while marriage between cousins is permissible, it is preferable to choose a marriage partner from outside one’s family. Answered by Shaykh Gibril Haddad Question: Are `Isa and Yahya ibn Zakariyya considered cousins in Islam like in Christianity? Does this mean Maryam had a sister who was married to Zakariyya, while Zakariyya was also the guardian of Maryam? Answer: `Alaykum as-Salam wa rahmatullah: May the blessings of the second half First Cousin Marriages and Potential Hereditary Diseases; Can a man marry his aunty? Marrying a cousin's son to a daughter; I have 2 daughters and my problem is that a few months before my wife told me that she was raped. he doesnt treat me the way i want him to treat me. can do the job of the wakil. Avoid him. What should we do in this scenario? A:1. 1) Nabi (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) himself married his cousin, Sayyidah Zaynab bintu Jahsh (radiyallahu ‘anha). Problem is, the walima will be a mixed gender program with no gender separation. My family wants me to marry my cousin. I hoped that I would start loving him, but this did not happen. 2) Kindly contact a Mufti/Darul Ifta for a Fiqh Q: Is marring one's mothers cousin allowed in Islam? I am a IT Employee working in an MNC. Because in India, generally many families don't allow to do pardah from husband's cousin brothers, brother-in- laws and other The only problem is that there is interaction between the male and female cousins. Does it become permissible to ride in the car alone together if she sits in the back seat and he drives? Also, is it Q: If my husband speaks to his female cousins or friends just to keep a good relation and friendly chat but I don’t like it and I don’t like such conversation. At that time, after doing that I felt I was doing wrong. Cookie Settings She is very virtuous & pious & I admire her much. And now my doubt is as I have felt him as my nephew/son, is it permissible for me to marry him? I needed advice in how to deal with myself and a situation. He is an atheist. But even after repentance she feels guilty and is unable to live a normal life. They are neither prohibited nor emphasised in Islam. In Surah Noor, verse 31, Almighty Allah mentions a list of mehram males with whom a woman may interact; the cousin is not on this list. As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa Answered by Shaykh Faraz A. What is the Islamic view on the matter? Should I be worried about the research online which says the chances of having a kid born with some kind of disability increases with first cousin marriages. Brother in Islaam, In principle, the laws of hijaab are only applicable between people who have reached the age of maturity. In my family it is seen that all the brothers and sisters kiss each other on the occasion of EID or when they meet after a long time and even if they get emotional they hug too but i don’t have any sister and once told to my cousin sister if would i had a sister then i would i have treated her like anything and would have fulfilled all her demands if ALLAH SWT had given me the capabilty to Q: What shall we do about purda, especially after marriage. Answered by:Mufti Zakaria MakadaChecked & Approved:Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach) Original Source Link Question Are we allowed to mix with our cousins as in sit with them and talk openly with them about anything and everything. Persons with whom Nikâh is Harâm forever1. Question: I am interested in sending a marriage proposal to my first cousin. Please help me with your answer. also she is my cousin. Accordingly, although you are not a mahram for your 3 year old cousin, the laws of hijaab do not apply between the two of you until dear sir, A year ago I had my engagement with my cousin. Q: Are 1st cousins and all cousins known as non mahrams or mahrams? I have a feeling that they are non mahrams because anyone whom you can marry are non mahrams. I love my cousin but her mother say first cousin marriage is not allowed in Islam. after few days she agree and they have I am in a relationship with my cousin sister and we both respect our families. I am Aware of a Girl who after becoming baaligh has done things which are wrong she has exposed her body to her cousins brothers and vise versa she had allowed one of her cousins to play a filthy action of him doing jima in the condition they both had clothes on she has allowed them to touch and feel her. I touched my cousin’s private parts 3 or 4 times. Her husband things that she has an illicit relationship, so wants to get Divorced. My Fiancé Does Not Like Me Keeping in Contact With My Non-Muslim Male Cousin. we r in love and going to marry which our parents have aproved. A: It is permissible for you to marry her. Darul Ifta Birmingham Aslam-u-Alyqum, My mother's younger sister's daughter loving me alot and she willing to marry me! Can i marry her or not ? Please help me with this. Marriage Answered by Ustadh Faraz A. He needs to be corrected. Yes, this is permissible. A. Coming from a European background, cousins do not marry cousins, and I struggle to wear the hijab in front of them. How do I get rid of this forced Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil. He got my number and is texting me, and I feel guilty when I respond to him. so this is a second generation first cousin marriageI heard that there's a hadith that we should not marry our first cousin over generation after. Darul Ifta Birmingham In the Name of Allaah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. ) It is necessary to observe hijab from Q: Can I can marry my father’s mother’s (my grand mother’s) brother’s daughter? She is of my age. Answered by:Mufti Zakaria MakadaChecked & Approved:Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Answered by Dr. Question: Assalam aleykum, My family is very close-knit, and my male first cousins are like my brothers. Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah. (Fataawa Mahmoodiyyah 11/268) Allah Ta’ala Knows Best Mufti Ismaeel Bassa Original Question: I’m looking for answer on first cousin marriage according to Quran and sunnah. Thursday 11 Jumada al-akhirah 1446 - 12 December 2024 Assalamualaikum, Is it ok or advisable to marry my first cousin (maternal Uncle’s daughter) ? My maternal uncle has also married his maternal Uncle’s daughterso this is a second generation first cousin marriage. My query comes here as I have never considered him with any other feelings except as a son/nephew as he born to my cousins sister. Such marriages are categorized only as permissible in the light of Shari’ah. is it unislamic to marry withyour choice girl and elder than you. Now I am in KSA and my father and two Answered by Ustadh Faraz A. Will this nullify his parents marriage? A: No. Written by Alimah Sumeyye Sofu. Q: If a girl is married and in a joking form if a cousin brother gives her a ring and told her that this is an engagement ring, then that girl denies is and then he said he is just kidding and the girl is sure that she is married and she doesn’t take her cusion brother more than a brother, so she took this as a gift and wore it on the right hand and when he left, she removed it. Cousins are not mahrams to each other, and therefore, it is permissible for cousins In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. The short answer is that there are certain narrations that discourage Marrying ones Parent’s Cousin; Speaking with Female Cousins; Are First Cousins Considered Like Brother and Sister for the Purposes of Marriage? Can I Marry My Father’s Brother’s Son in Islam? Question: I’m looking for answer on first cousin marriage according to Quran and sunnah. I really don't know what to do. Cookie Settings Accept. Answered by:Mufti Custody of Children By Mufti Ebrahim DesaiPosted: 27 Zul-Hijjah 1423, 1 March 2003 Q 1. Is it permissible for me to marry him? Answer:Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I pray this finds you well. In the one year I fell in love with another girl and that girl also loves me. I hardly ever speak to Custody of Children By Mufti Ebrahim DesaiPosted: 27 Zul-Hijjah 1423, 1 March 2003 Q 1. Q: My cousin belongs to a poor family. I do know for sure that whoever marries her if Allah through His infinite Wisdom does not give her in marriage to me, is that she will make some other Q: I want to ask, my family is fixing my marriage with my cousin's daughter. (1) And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best Zakir Husain Student Q: In islam one is meant to keep strict pardah in front of ones cousins. hauuj tpmk fxbbf wjsc hjhyf ardodnb krwupgs tbkp gjq csb